Gabriella_1_DQ1&2

I believe divorce rate in India is lower compared to the States because in India divorce is still a major social taboo and divorce seekers have to undergo several ordeals in order to get separated from each other. In addition, women never really had a choice and grew up in a submissive manner, so it would be very difficult to change their mentality and rebel against society rules.  However, USA is the land of freedom and opportunities. This fact grants people with freedom of speech and many rights which let them decide on their own, so they feel free to marry and divorce whoever whenever. It is all a matter of culture and moral standards. I believe marriages should not be arranged by parents because in most cases their offspring might experience stress and pressure that will force them to make a decision they will regret the rest of their lives. A forced marriage will result in a divorce, if not worst. Many couples have problems that lead to domestic or psychological violence. Parents think that making decision about marriage is the most important one in life; therefore, they should help their offspring to make a conscious one to gain a happy family in the future. However, they should not force them in their decision but advise them what is best since they are more experienced. It is always nice to know that the parents approve a relationship or marriage because it will definitely be very uncomfortable to feel disapproval when the couple attends a familiar event. Parental approval is important but not essential. I know I would not be able to have a long successful relationship with somebody that my parents do not approve because negative comments will arise frequently and it could even end up in a fight. My parents did not like the idea of me having a boyfriend until I was 16, but I think they have been very comprehensive and respectful with my romantic choices. I do follow advice because I have learned that for some reason my mom is always right. Currently, I do not have a boyfriend, but my last one was Honduran and Christian like me. He had a pretty good social-economic standing, but I am a step ahead in education because I am bilingual, and he only speaks Spanish. We met at church, and he lives 15 minutes (driving) away from me.