Cole_3.3_DQ

Every experience in life plays a part in ultimately molding people. The word "prisoner" is a good word to describe the correlation between our past and present selves. The past cannot be changed, but we are not bound by it. Still, the fact that it is unchangeable presents a feeling of inevitability, so we are chained in a sense. Whether that is a good thing or not depends on each person’s particular past. Regardless, no one has the same past, so no one experiences the same relationship. My relationships have all been different and it could be argued that this is because my past relationships have showed me what does and does not work well.