Gabriella_6.3_DQ

Last year, my friends and I were preparing a surprise birthday party for one of my closest friends. Since we were so close and people knew it, they, obviously, asked me what was a good gift to give to her. I said a cd of her favorite band and hair scissors. I know hair scissors...??? Well, a couple of weeks before, I heard that she wanted this scissors badly. So I thought this was a perfect opportunity to give it to her. However, the moment came when she opened the present and as soon as she saw the scissors we were able to notice a huge question mark in her face. She did not have a clue of why we gave her scissors, and everybody looked at me as saying: Gaby told us, it is her fault, so I felt kind of embarrassed afterwards. I felt embarrassed because I was the one supposed to know her better, but now according to society, I do not really know her even though I thought I do now it makes me doubt about it. It makes me realize that maybe there are things that I perceive as important that are not that important to the other person.