Gabriella_5.3_DQ

I believe the ideal form is to wait until marriage to have any sexual activity. However, in our present society, virginity is not  respected as much as it was in the previous decades. I would advise to a modern couple to wait a considerate amount of time before having sex because sex always creates an emotional attachment in women. In order to avoid any hurtful and uncomfortable situations the couple should be in the same page as in feelings and the direction where their relationship is going to. Otherwise, the act of ''love'' will be one-sided and ironically selfish. In addition, girls have to watch out for their reputation and be careful about what kind of men are they getting themselves involved with. There are many ''men'' (if they can be called that) that talk about girls they have been with or even worse, they make up false stories about what happened with a chick.    Furthermore, I would never have sex with somebody after  third date. My beliefs and principles will stop me from doing it, and I am so thankful with my parents for the way they raised me. And yes, there have been persons who thought they had no chance with me or that the relaionship was going nowhere because I did not let them do any movement in our first dates. How immature and stupid can that be? I guess these are cues that let me know what values guys have and let me decide on who is more convenient to me.