Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Christian_1_DQ_4

Have you ever presented a relationship as if it were fair when you kind of knew that it wasn't?

If this question refers to making believe that a relationship is working out when it is truly not, then, unfortunately,  I have presented a relationship as if it were fair when I knew it wasn't. However, I must say, it was not unfair on my part. I try to be as fair as possible, just because I treat others the way I would want them to treat me, thus I do the best I can to not hurt anybody.Why? because, I believe that issues and predicaments already do come with relationships when some differences arise between the two parties, so why would one bring up stuff to make the relationship stumble? And if so, why would someone stick with is as if it were all completely fine? I would say that, since, finding and receiving affection is a basic need for us humans, I do understand why people would rather think their relationship it working instead of throwing the towel: It is hard to aknowledge that the one person to whom you are emotionally attached (whether it be your boyfriend/girlfriend, best friend, relative, etc) does not make the same effort that you make to work it out, therefore, you make yourself and others believe that the relationship it fair.

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At August 28, 2012 at 6:49 PM, Blogger Naima said...

I like the fact that you mention that relationships come with issues. In every relationship (old or new) you are trying to figure the other person out, and each day you find new things about her/him. No person is alike; therefore, personalities may collide. The key is trying to talk things over with the other person and try to solve the problem.

 

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