Cole_3.1_NI

The reading brings to light an idea that when it comes to introverts seeking companionship, they generally prefer a more outgoing friend/partner. It draws on the idea that relationships are established by the interaction between two or more individuals, but I would actually question that. I feel it would be more prudent to say that we simply have various levels of comfort when it comes to being in a group. What we call "introverted" and "extroverted" is simply another way for saying "silent" and "loud." If I were to label myself, it would be introverted, but when the conversational atmosphere is lacking a certain level of activity, I abandon my shell to adjust it to my liking. Even if I am alone, I have music playing and Facebook on because I still like to engage my mind to an extent, even though I do not always particularly like to be a part of the action. If there is enough noise or activity to suit my preferences, I usually sit back and observe, but if everything is at a standstill, I pull the conversation up to my level. Some people prefer more action and communication and some prefer less, but is the desire for a particular atmosphere really enough to make someone an introvert or an extrovert?